The Fibromyalgia Creator

Last Updated: 01-14-24

Your body isn’t out to hurt you. It is an intelligence system that wants nothing but the best for you no matter how you treat it. Give your body a little bit more credit than it being a broken down machine. I believe that illness is a feedback mechanism that lets us know when something is emotionally bothering us under the surface; that we may or may not be conscious of. Are there physical factors involved in illness? YES! Can studies and evidence-based medicine be the only pieces of the puzzle that matter? I don’t believe this to be true. Gather as much information as you can physically, emotionally and spiritually before making any decisions involving your body. Be your best advocate.

With Love, Rachel Reimer

An Illustration of the Fibromyalgia Creator

A young women walks up to her father and tries to have a conversation with him. Before she starts to talk to him, a giant ice wall appears in front of him. The young women perceives that this man wants absolutely nothing to do with her. This describes how the young women feels regularly. She believes that men will abandon her, especially men close to her.

Therapeutic Considerations

The word “creator” is used very intentionally. If an individual can live out the illustration of Fibromyalgia Creator over and over again, it is CREATED. Here are questions that I encourage you to journal about and/or discuss with your counselor.

*Do not sit and think about these questions. Get the thoughts out of your body through writing or speech. A true, unbiased, analysis of oneself can not happen within just the contents of one’s own mind.

  1. What specific men put up a giant ice wall?

  2. Do these specific men consciously know that they are putting up a giant ice wall? If they are conscious, is the giant ice wall meant to protect them?

  3. Is it possible that these specific men aren’t putting up a giant ice wall?

  4. Could it be true that I have put up the giant ice wall because the possibility of rejection feels really painful?

  5. Have I emotionally abandoned myself? (Do I pay attention to how I feel and process my feelings?)

  6. When I feel abandoned, how do I process that feeling without taking my anger/hurt out on myself or someone else?

  7. Have any of these specific men given up on me? If I asked them, would they say that they have given up on me?

  8. Are any of these specific men that I feel abandoned by emotionally available? If they are not emotionally available, does this mean that they have abandoned their own emotions/self?

  9. Why can’t I let go of the expectation that these specific men were supposed to show up for me in a specific way?

  10. Does it feel like these specific men in my life have conspired against me? Did they all get together in a group and figure out how to hurt me?

  11. Why am I still allowing these men into my energetic space? Why do I keep opening the door to them on a spiritual level?

If you would like to talk to someone that is familiar with emotional stress and how it may impact specific parts of the body, you can book a session with Rachel Reimer here:

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*The content on this post is based off of opinion and/or observation and is for entertainment purposes only.