I find it really odd that we judge people (myself included). Judgement, to me, means that the judge has the right answer. Think of Judge Judy. Two people have the same problem with different viewpoints and Judge Judy decides on which viewpoint makes the most sense to her. However, what were to happen if Judge Judy judged everything? The kind of shirts you wear, the way you talk, what school you go to, who you should marry etc. Then, we would be living in Judge Judy’s world.
The same if you listened to every loved one’s judgement about you. It will no longer be your world; it will be theirs. So why are we as humans so quick to judge? It is “easier” to try and control someone else’s life than our own lives that we are upset by.